It sounds like you purchased BMC Remedyforce from Salesforce. Do you have a Salesforce Account Manager that you worked with to purchase BMC Remedyforce? If so, you'll need to contact them first. They will need to complete some paperwork on their side to effectively "cancel" the order. This would then allow the "Uninstall" link to show up so you can uninstall the product and then reinstall.
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