So the reason is clear. In all the error messages which appeared this one in localhost log was important:
Error creating bean with name 'handlers': Initialization of bean failed; nested exception is java.lang.IncompatibleClassChangeError: class org.bouncycastle.asn1.DERObject has interface org.bouncycastle.asn1.ASN1Encodable as super class
there is a KB article to this:
the title is a little bit misleading. The service stops immediately in background but is still presented as running in services.
ThanksRohit Kumar for great support.